Sunday, March 16, 2008

The multilingual Champion in the Family

Dear Friends, this news has been long overdue and am taking time to post this. For mama, it will always be news. I just would like to share how difficult life is for a multilingual kids like Colleen and Alex. They are face with cultural shock many times but am just thankful to their flexibilities and wide understanding of almost everything. He speaks french with Papa, ilonggo, english and french with me and english in school and with friends. Alex is new in AISD (American International School in Dhaka) This is an english medium school. He has been in French school for 4 years and shifting to an english medium of instruction is not that simple for his age. But he has taken his stride slowly into the system. In short, he had a smooth transition. As he is as well into sports, his talents have been recognized by the school and train him to achieve his full capacity. Am sharing the pride of our family in his latest performance in Tennis. This is not simply sharing with you his achievements but sharing with you how he cope up with his multiple challenges. Alex was chosen as one to represent the American International School of Dhaka (AISD) in New Delhi Tennis Tournament. He is seed # 2 in single tennis and he is seed #1 in doubles. The school has never won the first prize yet in Tennis. Alex showed a motivation way beyond our expectations. We were more stress than him preparing for the tournament. Alexandre was champion in Single Tennis with highest points and he and his partner got the 2nd place in Doubles. The girls players did a good job as well. It was all a united team efforts and finally this year, AISD got the Championship title in Tennis. The school welcome them back with a loud cheering. We welcome him and so good to see him all smiles. Alex is so much involved in sports activities after school. He is into soccer and basketball games. Like Colleen, he knows how to tweet in the choir as well::). So far, we are happy that his focus is still centered in school. He has received an award as an outstanding student in Math. I can only keep my joy on his achievements. I always keep my finger crossed that he will stay focus. . We are always there to remind him how much we love him and the only thing we want in life is for him to be happy in whatever endeavors he is into. In most times. he has been challenged but he seems to have a flexibility that is apparent to his day to day activities. He is growing up and face with challenges everyday. Sometimes, it's hard for him to take all at once. When he was in India for the tournament, he came back here and found a loaded school works waiting for him. A reminder that he has to be a student first before he is an athlete. We were there assisting him to have his homework done. Just a checklist for mommy that he doesn't miss anything. He is quite organized yet a constant reminders help although he doesn't seem to like it. He wants us to know he is responsible enough but his mommy is as stubborn as the fig tree::)). I want to be part of his daily activities. But generally speaking, teenagers don't like it Sometimes I feel bad if steph and I are in the club eating our dinner. He used to come with us but decided to stay home to finish his works. It's good but I find it unfair to let him home. He doesn't forget to say cuckoo to me at break in the morning and offers me doughnut buying it from his own allowance. I'm touch when he comes like that. I stay at a distance in school thinking he might be embarassed but he comes from time to time to say hi to mommy. Regular prayer is a big big help. I only wish I can keep up with him. I know, more is ahead to handle. (see the excerpt from the school newsletter here http://www.ais-dhaka.net/news/index.htm, february 27 issue, page 5)

6 comments:

Vk-mahalkaayo said...

hello Phoebs,

thank you very much for sharing this post.

it is like, what i feel now.

i pray that sascha too, that he will think nga Education-pursue his study in Uni, nga the first thing in his life,
same at Kim....eventhough she has another plan....but i am happy they have both a plan for their future.

thank you very much for all your mga "!paala-ala"....appreciated it very much...thank you, thank you.

Babette said...

Wow, congratulations to Alexandre! :) He's a well-rounded and very talented teen. I'm so happy for him and for you and Steph.
How are you Phoebes? :)

kookie said...

wow thats awesome multiligual, i'm jealous wink. darling phoebz u looks great as always miss yah and thanks for the IM the other day hug muah.

mermaidejen said...

Hi Vk,

Thanks for passing by and mark your footprints. You're welcome. Sometimes, ang dami kong ishare about him pero I really got no time. How is everybody there?

mermaidejen said...

Thanks Barbs, I know there are times he gets stressed with school works. It's nonstop, one homework done, two will come but he is quite good in organizing his time. For 2 days, we woke up late while he was already out in the sports field by 8:00am. We are fine, suffering with heat and humidity in dhaka::)) we stayed in door most of the time. Tennis is just difficult now except from 6:00pm which the temperature is low. But my driving range takes my time as well. thanks again

mermaidejen said...

Hi kookie, welcome darling, miss you too. we will try to catch up sometimes. How is everybody there? have a good weekend.